Friday, October 10, 2014

STOP THE MADNESS AND SUPPORT THE POLICE - THEY FACE DISRESPECT DAILY AND HANDLE UNREASONABLE HOSTILITY

 Over the last forty years I have had the honor as a political adviser to ride along with various organizations that protect and serve our nation and communities. Being an observer has given me a perspective seldom seen by my most people except on television. The rides have been on boats patrolling rivers, war ships such as United States Navy frigates, and squad cars. So today, forty years after my first adventure in a police squad car and a few days after my most recent ride I have some amazing things to share.
Before I ever rode in a squad car I had taken a criminal justice course in college. It was taught by the past Sheriff of a major California county. While he was teaching, he also consulted for police departments throughout the world. He was a true believer in community policing before it became popular. Community policing helps people interact in a positive manner with police departments. It encourages police and citizens to work together.
I am going to talk about one statement my instructor made that has held true throughout the years. I have heard it numerous times. Due to this statement I never drink and drive. When a police officer stops someone that he or she suspects of driving while intoxicated he almost always gets the same answer to the same question. So what is this question? It is "how many drinks have you had?" The response initially is almost always two or a couple. After interviewing numerous officers that are experts in identifying intoxicated drivers they concur ardently.
I have found throughout the years that the police officers I have rode with are more professional than they were forty years ago. They treat anyone they stop with more respect than the officers of years past. Community policing has become more and more important. However, negative changes have taken place. 

The negative things that have worsened with time are not the actions of police officers but the aggressiveness of the public. More and more people exhibit a lack of respect for the police and the law. Sitting in the seat next to an officer gives one a perspective that is very unique. You are able to watch as an outsider. You are there, however, your presence is ignored by all involved. I have watched police officers drive behind someone for a mile speeding. They were doing forty-five in a twenty-five. When the stop takes place the person will say they were not speeding. The officer states the speed was posted. The speeder insists it wasn't. I personally remember passing at least four in that situation. Offenders accuse the police officer of singling them out. Few admit they did break any laws. I was able to spot the infraction without the aid of the police officer saying anything. The threats and attempts at intimidation by the offender usually follow. People threaten that they are going to report the officer to their supervisor for stopping them. This new breed of well educated officers listen and are courteous. I am not saying there are not bad police officers. I have seen some whose activities I would question. However, as rule I would say police officers of today are ninety nine percent better than their predecessors.
When it comes to hard core criminals I have seen them lie and attempt to manipulate situations. Some of these have been on probation and or parole. Just looking at them one would never suspect who or what they did. So, if a police officer asks you if you are on probation or parole it is not about you, it is about his or her safety. Officer safety is another place the police have improved. Modern well trained officers do not turn their backs on subjects. You will often see them walking backwards. They show respect even when not receiving it. An example of this professionalism would be when police officers give a ticket, they explain that the signing of the ticket is not an admission of guilt. If still verbally attacked they let the person know that they can fight the ticket in court. When people refuse to sign the ticket ,which I have also seen, the officer explains very calmly that the alternative is going to jail and appearing before the judge. It seems people change their attitude with that and thank the officer for not arresting them.
I have seen and heard people call police officers words that truly shouldn't be used by anyone when around children. Those words often come out of a car full of children learning to disrespect the officers just as their parents have. This does not mean that I don't know people just like the ones I am mentioning. One acquaintance told me he was caught speeding by a police officer on the freeway. He admitted he was in fact speeding. His son who was in the car told me that his dad had called the police officer some very unkind words after getting the ticket he deserved for driving over 85 in a 65 miles per hour speeding zone. This is a familiar situation that I have experienced numerous times sitting as an observer in police cars. The attitude displayed is, what I did wrong is not as wrong as the police officer that caught me and gave me a ticket. When will people accept responsibility for their actions? We have laws to keep people safe. We hire police officers to enforce those laws. What would you do if a police officer allowed someone to excessively speed and they hit your car and you ended up in the hospital?
I have seen officers that carry puppets and toys so that they are able to better interact with children. I have seen them in the community participating on their own time in events for children and adults. Some of them have been Santa Claus at schools and charities. Again, this is not all officers. However, more and more officers are becoming involved in the communities they live in and also the communities they police.
Not long ago I saw a young man I would guess to be around fifteen. He was riding his bicycle at night. He had no lights or reflectors. He rode right past the police officer. The officer said to the young man, "please get off your bike and walk it, you have no lights." The young man said "why?" The officer said again, "it is against the law and if you don't I will have to give you a ticket." The young man got off the bike and gave the officer a dirty look. He should have had the manners to thank the officer for not picking up the bicycle and giving him a ticket. Parents need to take some of the responsibility for this type of action as I mentioned earlier. It is often a learned behavior passed down from parent to child.
I know that all officers do not have the training or skills of the officers I have mentioned. I know that all citizens are not like the ones I have mentioned. However, as the years go on I see less and less respect for the man, the badge and the position. I see more and more people failing to accept responsibility for their actions. This is somewhat of a mirror of our society. People walking out on debts. People suing over hot coffee spilling on them when they themselves spilled it. People looking to sue for the easy dollar. Insurance companies paying even when their client is right because fighting the issue is more expensive than settling. I could go on. However, a majority of the people are good citizens. However, this "me" generation is out of control. It isn't the current phenomena that many discuss. I think it has been with us longer than one generation.
I truly don't know what is wrong with people. However, I see these events as a microcosm of what is occurring in the world. People do not want to take responsibility for their actions. They are mad at the police officer not because he is doing his job but because he caught them. This lack of respect for the law needs to stop. What would these people be like if a time warp took us back to the old days when police carried black jacks and knew nothing about psychology. What if our modern departments didn't give psychological tests to weed out those that would over react to situations? The officers I have rode with have all been very professional. I know from the news this isn't always the case.
On my first ride along with the police forty years ago, I was observing things in order to help expand and educate a city about community policing as a political adviser. We caught a drunk driver in front of the police, driving directly in front of the police station as we were on our way to patrol. Back then drunk driving did not carry the stigma nor penalties it does today. The driver we stopped was truly drunk and could not pass any FSTs. That stands for field sobriety tests. Watching him attempt to walk a straight line, close his eyes and touch his nose and balance on one foot was like watching a clown in the circus. When the officers asked him how many drinks he had, his answer was a couple. After being read his Miranda Rights and stating he understood them and had no questions, he continued to talk while the police officers continued to remind him that he had the right to remain silent. He insisted on a blood test until he saw the needle, then wanted a breath test. Then again he wanted a blood test. His final decision after trying to stall the test for as long as possible was a blood test. During this time he had now told us how he had been drinking long enough to consume at least eight beers and a couple of hard drinks. Needless to say he was very drunk.
After the test he became more and more belligerent. When we got back to the department, the police began to ask him contact information. They wanted to release him quickly to a family member. However, he cussed at the officers and refused to answer. His stubbornness gave him free room and board in the drunk tank for the night. When they asked him who they should contact in case of an emergency he answered, "My mother." What is her name the officer asked. "Mom," he replied. They then asked what is her telephone number and with various unprintable words before his statement, he answered "none of your business." They explained they would like to release him, but he didn't help.
On another ride along many years later with another department, we stopped another person who claims to have had only two drinks. This one shared information and told the officers that he was afraid of his mother's response to him being arrested. He lived with her and he was 46. It wasn't his first time in this situation. He also turned belligerent. This one tried swinging on the two officers as they worked together, as in a fine ballet, cuffing him before anyone was hurt. These two officers had been working together for some time. Not a word passed between them as the cuffing ballet so gracefully played out.
Have I seen people say I am sorry and treat police officers with respect? Yes, I have. However, as time passes it seems that the officers become more professional and respectful of the citizenry. It also seems the inverse has been occurring with the citizens. As time passes the populous seems to show less and less respect for

any type of authority. The victims of this lack of respect includes parents, teachers, and police. More and more we hear about physical fights at children's athletic events. Why is this occurring? What will happen in the future if we don't start taking responsibility for our actions? The implications reach far beyond anything discussed in this article.

Thursday, October 9, 2014

WE NEED NEWS ON TELEVISION NOT EDITORIALS

I understand that the situation in Hammond, Indiana regarding the police breaking the glass is frightening. However, the police waited almost 14 minutes for the people to comply. The man in the car did all the wrong things beyond complying he reached into the glove compartment and reached behind him... The man had a warrant for no drivers license and marijuana no big thing but it was a warrant because he failed to appear. Then in this situation he has no ID. However, he offers the police a ticket he received. Any bets it included but may have not been limited to no drivers license. Offering the ticket as ID is not reasonable. It has no description nor any picture. However, not complying has a lot of messages to the police in it. Commentators have been instigating more disrespect of the police. They have shown the last few seconds of the video with the police breaking the window yet the haven't shown what led up to it. It was a great day when news was news and not editorial. Give me the facts and allow me to make my own decisions. I AM NOT SAYING EITHER PARTY IS RIGHT OR WRONG. I AM SAYING THE REPORTING IS LESS THAN ADEQUATE SENSATIONALISM. I AM ALSO SAYING WE NEED TO STOP THESE VIGILANTE TRIALS BY TELEVISION COMMENTATORS. AT THIS POINT I AM SIDING WITH THE POLICE. THE FAIL TO COMPLY IS AN OFFENSE THAT SENDS A PERSON TO JAIL.

Saturday, October 4, 2014

Memory loss is reversed in Alzheimer's patients for the first time, scientists say  | Daily Mail Online

Memory loss is reversed in Alzheimer's patients for the first time, scientists say  | Daily Mail Online

Jewish New Year

A YOM KIPPUR MESSAGE


YOM KIPPUR MESSAGE
Yom Kippur is probably one of the most influential Jewish holidays to our people. It stands apart. The obvious reason is that we don’t eat or drink, we refrain from wearing leather and endeavor to become as close to God as possible. But, it is also a time when Jews around the world are unified for a common purpose. Even the most secular Jews who choose to work on Yom Kippur, still fast as a sign of respect and unity to our ancient traditions. What is it about this day that is so special?
An answer to this question can be found in the “zochreinu” prayer we begin reciting on Rosh Hashanah and continue during the Ten Days of Repentance, up to Yom Kippur. It reads: “Zochreinu L'chaim ... remember us for life, O King Who wants us to have life, and inscribe us in the Book of Life, for Your sake O Living G-d” and concluding on the actual day of Yom Kippur by saying “seal us in the book of life.” This idea of being inscribed in the book of life is the essence of Judaism. It does not just refer to some esoteric relationship between human beings and God, but rather the intrinsic personal relationships with our families and communities.
We only achieve personal forgiveness by making amends to the people around us. This is the essence of “Uvacharta b’chaim…and you shall choose life” one of the highest commandments in Judaism. This can be exemplified by an quote from Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach, who composed some of the beautiful melodies we hear in temple, when he was interviewed while entertaining Israeli soldiers fighting in the Yom Kippur war. He was asked 'what's the difference between you and the Arabs, both sides are shooting?’ Rabbi Carlebach answered “I'll tell you the difference. When the other side is shooting and pulling the trigger, they are praying, Please God, make sure this bullet kills somebody. When we, the children of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, and our four holy mothers, when we pull the trigger, we pray to God, let there be a miracle, that between my pulling the trigger and the bullet reaching somebody, let there be a miracle. Suddenly, let there be peace in the world.”
This is who we are as a people. We choose life whenever given the opportunity. The Jewish people have stood at the forefront of the civil rights movement and have led the way in social justice and equality throughout the centuries. Judaism itself holds life as the most treasured gift bestowed upon us by God and its preservation supersedes all of the commandments in the Torah, except for three, and those, it can be argued, are still about holding someone else’s life above our own.
On this day, as we stand before the gates of repentance, we are at our most holy and sublime. Having deprived our bodies of food and drink, we become pure spiritual beings able to discern the ultimate of ideals. For those brief moments, we become spiritually recharged so that we may choose to do better in the coming year. May you all be inscribed in the book of life and have a healthy and prosperous 5775.
Shabbat Shalom and Gamar Chatima Tova.
Rabbi Andrew Bentley